Well, I have not posted in quite a while - largely due in part to time, but more than anything, I often don't feel like I have much to blog about. Tonight, I have a quiet house, a few moments to blog and more than anything - a testimony to God's greatness in using all things for His glory and our good. So I feel compelled to share - it was a precious lesson to all of us and I am praying God uses it greatly in the life of our family.
Last night was quite an adventure - another story all in itself - the short version - Ethan got sick several times, resulting in the car seat needing to be cleaned. I worked on that today and had it sitting there - waiting for all the drying parts to be returned. The car seat has this lovely piece of foam that is the head support. To a little four year old girl, this must have looked like a craft project waiting to happen. More than once I had said, Allison, don't touch the foam. While getting dinner ready I see Allison holding a piece of the foam and hear Jeremy asking her where it came from. Eventually she pointed to the broken foam in the living room. Yes, you guessed it, she decided to disobey and tear the foam so, as she put it, she could "make something." To say I was upset would be quite the understatement. I was not happy at all. Jeremy took her to her room, talked to her and we left her to stay on her bed while we discussed matters in the other room - trying to decide what to say, what the consequences were and cool down - all were needed. We talked about how she could pay for it (she had money from Christmas) but that seemed like something of little impact since she doesn't have a real concept of the amount of money. After a period of time Jeremy said he needed to go back and deal with her - I asked, "What are you going to say?" Jeremy's reply, "I don't know exactly, but talk to her about the gospel and forgiveness." When Jeremy came back and shared with me about the conversation, I realized that God used the broken car seat to teach us all a big lesson. Jeremy said that when he was talking to Allie, he told her she would have to pay for the repairs or replacement, no matter how much that was (and we had told her it could be lots of money). She looked up at him, feeling badly and said, "Daddy, I can't pay, I only have $2 from Uncle Adam and $1 from my bank, I don't have enough and I can't pay." Which made her sad. It was at that moment that Jeremy (being a wonderful father - tender to teaching our children about God's love and grace) realized that this is EXACTLY what God has done for us - we come to Him completely unable to pay and he says to us, "I will pay." So Jeremy looked at Allison and explained that because he loved her, he would pay what she couldn't. It was a wonderful opportunity to talk to her about how God did this for us, he paid for our sins which we could never pay for. Jeremy headed to a meeting and Allie brought it up again to me, telling me how special it was that Daddy was going to pay for something that she couldn't but should. When she prayed tonight she thanked God for paying for what we couldn't.
I am beyond thankful above all that God did pay for what I couldn't! I am thankful for real lessons in life where he clearly reminds us of his love and grace. It may have been seemed like a broken car seat - but really it was a great reminder to all of us how God paid for what we couldn't. Allie knows tonight that her daddy loves her - that he is going to take care of what she can't. I pray that takes hold in her heart and that there comes a point where she sees exactly what God has done for her. So thankful for those moments when we so clearly see God at work - His glory - our good! My heart is smiling -
Tuesday, February 07, 2012
Sunday, September 04, 2011
Nothing Like Time with My Kids!
So Jeremy is backpacking and so the kids and I have enjoyed some good time together. Yesterday we headed to IKEA with a friend and enjoyed checking out some fun things there! Then the big decision - where should we have lunch? So many good choices! Once we thought about the Pazookie at BJs, the decision was made! Lunch was amazing - fried artichokes for an appetizer, open face roast beef sandwich for the main course (for me) and then yes, a White Chocolate Macadamia Nut Pazookie for dessert! It was amazing! Of course that meant now we had to go to the Outlet Mall to catch Labor Day sales - I mean - walk off the Pazookie! We caught some good deals. There were a few points when I was wondering why I decided to do this big trip with the kids - like when Allie was crawling through clothes or the window displays or when Ethan was screaming because his sister took his balloon, but I honestly have to say they were GREAT! They did so good being dragged everywhere and I am thankful that I have a girl who loves to shop and try things on - love that I will have a shopping buddy! We then headed home - a full 9 hours of shopping and fun!
Today we hung out at home and enjoyed being together - complete with a walk to Crepevine for lunch (Allie's choice) and the walk was a workout! A double stroller in heat made for some good exercise! Then my favorite part - naps for everyone - ME included! And now - Ethan is sleeping and Allie and I are relaxing watching a special Dora episode "Dora Saves the Crystal Kingdom." I love time with her! She is growing up way too fast in my mind but thankful she wants to spend time with me. I love it when she says, "Mom, this is the best day ever!" I love "Mommy and Me" time! So tomorrow - I think feeding the ducks and the park - at Allie's request and we both agree Moxie's would be a special Labor Day treat!
My Girl Kicked back in her favorite chair - the laundry basket - enjoying the evening!
This pic - purely for fun because it makes me smile!
Saturday, September 03, 2011
Catching Up
The Writebol's had a fun summer! One of our favorite summer activities is the Sonoma County Fair! We were able to go several times thanks to our fair entries! Enjoy a few pics of our first visit to the fair!
And yes, we came home from the fair with a new member to our family, Allie's pet bunny - Sparkle!
Allie's First Entry to the Sonoma County Fair - Isn't she a great little artist?????? She got us a free ticket!
Fun on the tractor's with her friend Gracie!
You can't be at the fair and not have your free Clover Ice Cream Cone!!!!!
And yes, we came home from the fair with a new member to our family, Allie's pet bunny - Sparkle!
Thursday, September 01, 2011
30 Days - Only 29 More to Go!
So day one of the Shred is done! I am back at it and this time with complete accountability! I have two friends who are in this 30 days with me! We are doing 30 days of the Jillian Michaels 30 Day Shred DVD. So in April I started this video and completed 30 days of workouts - every day - didn't miss a day!!!!!! There were days I felt like I was going to die (and tomorrow will be one of them when I go to put my feet on the floor and try to walk) but it was good - I slept better, felt better over all and clothes were fitting differently - - loved it - hard work but loved it. My sweet husband promised me a trip to the SPA if I did all 30 days! The SPA was amazing - I had my ultimate massage and was feeling so good about my reward that I decided it had to be done again - back to the shred!
I was thinking about it and wondering - if I felt so good while doing it - why did I quit for May, June and July - - - then I remembered - oh right - the flu for most of May at my house and then travel galore! But seriously - it is time for no excuses - time to be serious and stay committed. I am excited about getting back in to the daily routine (I am such a routine person) and LOVE that I am not doing this alone! Thankful for the two people in this with me! Trust me - only real friends would commit to this video for 30 days! So day one is done and I can honestly say - it felt good! (Ask me tomorrow what I think - lol!)
I was thinking about it and wondering - if I felt so good while doing it - why did I quit for May, June and July - - - then I remembered - oh right - the flu for most of May at my house and then travel galore! But seriously - it is time for no excuses - time to be serious and stay committed. I am excited about getting back in to the daily routine (I am such a routine person) and LOVE that I am not doing this alone! Thankful for the two people in this with me! Trust me - only real friends would commit to this video for 30 days! So day one is done and I can honestly say - it felt good! (Ask me tomorrow what I think - lol!)
Wednesday, August 31, 2011
Come On Let's Go to Nowhere Land!
Can't believe it - but it is true - my little Allie will be four years old in a month and 3 days! So let the birthday plans begin! Yes, she has chosen a theme for her birthday that isn't easy - why? Well, it is an older cartoon and so finding anything to go with it has created a big challenge for a mom who loves birthday parties and loves to keep everything in theme. So the theme - well folks - we are headed to Nowhere Land with Maggie and the Ferocious Beast. I think that Allie's love for pretend play is the biggest reason she has fallen in love with watching Maggie!
I have to say that as much of a challenge as it is, Allie and I are having a lot of fun getting things ready for the party. So here is where we are so far:
- Found treat bags on eBay that are actually Maggie and the Ferocious Beast - this was an amazing accomplishment - so when it said, "Buy it Now" we bought it immediately!
- Safari hats - just like Maggie's hat for everyone to wear - finally found - google is an amazing thing!
- Magnifying glasses for everyone as we go exploring!
- Food - not completely planned yet, but we do know it will be a picnic - because Maggie always goes on a picnic complete with white and red checked table cloths! And the drink table - a lemonade stand - just like Maggie!
- Games - well "Pin the Spot on Beast" of course, "Return Hamilton to His Box" (getting the stuffed pig Hamilton into a cardboard box by throwing him - Hamilton lives in a box on the show), and the "Side-step Race" - the red crab does this with everyone on the show and his name is Side-Step.
- A few crafts - making Maggie and Beast dolls and coloring the map of Nowhere Land (SO excited to find this!)
- Cake - still working on that one - have a few cake people I am talking to :)
- Outdoor viewing of a few Maggie and the Ferocious Beast episodes - this is Allie's BIG request - when we do movies with the college students in our yard on the "Big Screen," Allie is sad when she can't stay out - so she has requested that we watch Maggie on the "Big Screen" outside for her birthday.
So there ya have it - our current plans for a fun trip to Nowhere Land!!!!!!! The best part of the party though - my mom (Allie's grandma) will be here! Allie gets Grandma and I get help :) Yea for Grandma's!
Saturday, August 06, 2011
Completely Done!
It is amazing how God gives us exactly what we need when we need it. So many times in my life God has used music and lyrics to remind me of great truths and promises that come from Him alone. I wish I was able to write about all God is doing in my life - but first - there isn't time - it is too much to write and it just isn't the time to write about it all. But over the last few months, circumstances have caused me to have doubts and fears have been great. God has used this song over the last week to really drive home to me that the VICTORY is won. I am an heir with Christ. What God completes is completely done. Really thinking on what it means to be an heir with Christ is overwhelming. Last week in the sermon I heard the pastor was pointing out that we don't get to choose to be an heir - - - we are chosen as heirs. We can't walk up to someone and say, "hey - I want to be your heir - make sure I get this and that." An heir is chosen. How crazy is that - God, in all my mess, chose me to be an heir with Christ - - - inconceivable - but TRUE! I have a long way to go - but working on leaving those fears behind. The song is so true - I don't know what lies ahead and I am sure I will fail - but God will keep me to the end. I was also remind of two HUGE truths this week (thanks to my brother for the reminder!): God loves me and God is for me. If that isn't something to cling to, I don't know what is - - -
Completely Done - Sovereign Grace
What reason have I to doubt
Why would I dwell in fear
When all I have known is grace
My future in Christ is clear
My sins have been paid in full
There's no condemnation here
I live in the good of this
My Father has brought me near
I'm leaving my fears behind me now
Chorus
The old is gone, the new has come
What You complete is completely done
We're heirs with Christ, the victory won
What You complete is completely done
I don't know what lies ahead
What if I fail again
You are my confidence
You'll keep me to the end
I'm leaving my fears behind me now
Completely Done - Sovereign Grace
What reason have I to doubt
Why would I dwell in fear
When all I have known is grace
My future in Christ is clear
My sins have been paid in full
There's no condemnation here
I live in the good of this
My Father has brought me near
I'm leaving my fears behind me now
Chorus
The old is gone, the new has come
What You complete is completely done
We're heirs with Christ, the victory won
What You complete is completely done
I don't know what lies ahead
What if I fail again
You are my confidence
You'll keep me to the end
I'm leaving my fears behind me now
Saturday, July 30, 2011
It's Fair Time!
It is fair time! I have had fun entering things in the fair and the BEST part - free tickets!!!! So far I have entered a decoupage foam diamond (decoupaged with old fair photos), decorated cookies and a photo of Allie. I am happy to report that my diamond got a first place ribbon and my photo got a 3rd place ribbon. Exciting times when I didn't anticipate winning anything!
Today I entered my "Mix Trix" cake. I made a Chocolate Marbled Pistachio Cake. I was to use a cake mix and make a creative cake. I was pleased with how it turned out - my biggest fear was that it was a bundt cake and as I was taking it out of the pan I was praying the whole time that it would not stick. It came out perfectly and my family seemed to think it was yummy! It was fun to make and fun to just enter something - no matter the outcome. Here is the recipe to share and some pictures - now off to get ready so we can go to the fair today. Excited to enjoy some fair food for lunch, let the kids see the animals and check out the exhibits!
Chocolate Marbled Pistachio Cake
1 pkg. white cake mix
1 pkg. Jello Pistachio flavor Instant pudding/pie filling (4 serving size)
4 eggs, slightly beaten
½ cup vegetable oil
¼ cup orange juice
¾ cup chocolate flavored syrup
powdered sugar
1. Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Grease a 10 inch tube pan; set aside
2. Combine cake mix, pudding mix, eggs, oil, ½ cup water and juice in large bowl. Beat at medium speed for 5 minutes. Pour 2/3 of the batter into prepared pan. Stir chocolate syrup into remaining batter. Pour chocolate batter slowly over pistachio batter. Do not stir or marble the batters—this will happen during baking.
3. Bake 50 – 55 minutes or until wooden pick inserted in cake comes out clean. Cool in pan for 15 minutes. Remove from pan, cool completely. Dust with powdered sugar.
Enjoy!
Sunday, July 24, 2011
A Week of Blessings!
We were so very blessed this past week to spend time with Jeremy's parents. They are missionaries in Zambia. Being in ministry presents certain challenges - one of the biggest is getting to be with family. With our family spread from Africa to Missouri to Colorado to California we have become great at traveling via plane and are thankful for things like Skype!
One of my prayers before Allison was ever born was asking God to help my children to know their family - even with many many miles between us. I can remember when I was pregnant with her praying and asking God, "Lord please don't ever let it seem when we visit that we start over with her learning who people are. Help her to be close to them even though we are far apart." God has been so gracious and we are so blessed. He has answered that prayer for me. I can say that Allie is so close to our family. She had not seen Jeremy's parents in over a year. When we got to the airport and I got to watch her run to Grammy and Papa wrapping her little arms around their necks, I was reminded how God is faithful and hears our prayers - how he desires to bless us and cares about all the details of our life!
We were so blessed this past week with so many blessings - - - I wanted to share them and recount them. This week I was continually reminded of how much God loves us and how he showers us with blessings. While we can't be together as much as we would like, he replaces those times we aren't together with amazing quality time together when he does allow us to be in one place. Precious memories were created. So here is my list of my week of blessing (and realize there is more than I can list - this is just a snapshot):
Friday
- Seeing Allie run up and wrap her arms around the neck of her Papa at the airport and hug her Grammy!
- Watching Grammy get to hold Ethan for the very first time and watching Ethan scrunch his nose and give his Papa a BIG smile for the first time in person!
- Getting to eat a Pazookie with Jeremy, Allie, Ethan, Grammy and Papa at BJ's
- Telling Jeremy's mom we were headed to the coast that very night
- Getting in bed that night and getting to say the words to Jeremy's parents, "See you in the morning!"
Saturday
- A crazy but traditional Writebol "hike" - getting to see the light house at Point Reyes
- Playing games with Jeremy's parents
- Deciding what goodies to buy at the "general store" in Tomales
- Getting in bed that night and getting to say the words to Jeremy's parents, "See you in the morning!"
Sunday
- Getting to sleep later than 7:00 a.m.
- A fun trip to Petaluma - enjoying awesome Mexican food at what will probably become a new favorite restaurant of mine - Mi Pueblo
- Game time with the family
- Grilled Pork Steak for dinner
- Getting in bed that night and getting to say the words to Jeremy's parents, "See you in the morning!"
Monday
- Getting to celebrate the first birthday of my cute little guy, Ethan - with Grammy and Papa here!!!!!!!!
- Watching Allie make monkey bread with Grammy
- The sunshine at the coast - incredible!
- Having friends and family at Ethan's birthday party
- Watching Ethan eat his first very own cupcake!
- Getting in bed that night and getting to say the words to Jeremy's parents, "See you in the morning!"
Tuesday
- Getting up and having Jeremy's mom here to help me with the kiddos
- Coming home and getting to go out to dinner with Jeremy's parents
- Frozen Yogurt time at Moxies
- Taking fun pictures of Allie with her Grammy and Papa
- Getting in bed that night and getting to say the words to Jeremy's parents, "See you in the morning!"
Wednesday
- Coming home from work to surprise Jeremy's mom with a trip to Coldwater Creek Spa for our pedicures!
- Getting to just sit and visit with Jeremy's mom
- Walking through Ross looking at fun things iwth Jeremy's mom
- Getting in bed that night and getting to say the words to Jeremy's parents, "See you in the morning!"
Thursday
- Going to San Francisco on a double date with Jeremy's parents: Sam Wo for dinner, walking around Chinatown finding amazing cheap things to buy, ice cream at Ghirardelli
- Having a sweet friend watch the kids for us so we could go to San Fran
- Getting in bed that night and getting to say the words to Jeremy's parents, "See you in the morning!"
Friday
- Working half-day
- Celebrating Jeremy's mom's birthday with dinner at home, games and fun gifts!!!!!
- Hearing Allie ask for Grammy to put her to bed and "lay with her for one minute." (This happened most every night!!!)
- Getting in bed that night and getting to say the words to Jeremy's parents, "See you in the morning!"
It was an amazing week - one we are truly thankful for!!!!!!! I loved - LOVED watching the kids every day play with their Grammy and Papa and fall more and more in love with them! Saturday was a hard day - sad that they had to leave. But - - - - - - - one thing I know - we can't wait until we are together again!!!!!! I am thankful for my husband's parents -- God blessed me beyond what I could ask or imagine! We are simply blessed!
Thursday, July 14, 2011
Jesus, Lover of My Soul
It is hard for me to believe that we are already half-way in to 2011. Over the last several days my mind has been churning - not sure why - just lots of thinking going on (possibly since things have slowed down enough for me to have time to think - lol). I have thought a lot about the last year of my life and all the lessons that have been learned and many still being taught to me. A year ago today I was preparing to have a baby, knowing that I would be induced on July 18 if my sweet peanut didn't decide to come before then (which was terrifying to me - and I was induced), my family had just experienced the loss of my grandfather two weeks prior and my not being able to be there was very difficult for me. My husband was preparing to participate in a Master's program in Seattle which God had miraculously provided for - but remember - new baby, almost 3 year-old and starting back to work in September. There were so many other things going on within our immediate and extended family in the months to come - more than I have time to write about. Big things were happening and still are. I look back at all of that and am amazed. I joke but there is a lot of truth in saying that I feel like the last year has been an exciting, scary, nerve-wracking roller coaster ride with many ups and downs.
The best part of this last year is to look back and see the work God is doing in my heart and my faith. He is stretching me and growing me by only his mercy and grace. It is Him and Him alone who gets all glory for the fact that I didn't go into a full-on panic attack each month when Jeremy went to Seattle for class. God is faithful - His promises are sure.
Since June, Jeremy has been on a leave of absence from where he works to finish his Master's final project (PRAISE the LORD he is done with school!). It has been a wonderful time to reconnect as a couple and as a family. It has been good for us to "take a breath" and really get time to be fed spiritually. It was much needed even though he had lots of work to do for his project. Because he has been on "leave" we have had a chance to visit other churches and that has been amazing. Last week we went to visit a church where we have some friends and it was wonderful to worship with them. I was overwhelmed with the joy and warmth we were greeted with. The singing - AMAZING! One of the songs we sang was "Jesus, Lover of my Soul." I have to say that this is a song I have sung many times - and this sounds odd to say (and slightly embarrassing) but this was the fist time I really remember singing the song and really thinking on the words of the song. I think this may be my favorite hymn right now. As I read over the words, thinking how Jesus is the real lover of my soul, it really does sum up so many of the prayers I have had over the last year of my life - and will continue to be. I think this will be part of my daily reading each day - to think on the words of this song and really make them a prayer for my life. I am so thankful that He is full of grace and truth, the source of all righteousness, that His grace has covered all my sin - that He is the Lover of my Soul. While some of the things that have happened over the last year I would not have chosen on my own, I am thankful God uses all things for our good and His glory. Oh and with Christ - I think that I am starting to be able to loosen the grip I have and put my hands up on that roller coaster ride - knowing I am safe with Him.
The best part of this last year is to look back and see the work God is doing in my heart and my faith. He is stretching me and growing me by only his mercy and grace. It is Him and Him alone who gets all glory for the fact that I didn't go into a full-on panic attack each month when Jeremy went to Seattle for class. God is faithful - His promises are sure.
Since June, Jeremy has been on a leave of absence from where he works to finish his Master's final project (PRAISE the LORD he is done with school!). It has been a wonderful time to reconnect as a couple and as a family. It has been good for us to "take a breath" and really get time to be fed spiritually. It was much needed even though he had lots of work to do for his project. Because he has been on "leave" we have had a chance to visit other churches and that has been amazing. Last week we went to visit a church where we have some friends and it was wonderful to worship with them. I was overwhelmed with the joy and warmth we were greeted with. The singing - AMAZING! One of the songs we sang was "Jesus, Lover of my Soul." I have to say that this is a song I have sung many times - and this sounds odd to say (and slightly embarrassing) but this was the fist time I really remember singing the song and really thinking on the words of the song. I think this may be my favorite hymn right now. As I read over the words, thinking how Jesus is the real lover of my soul, it really does sum up so many of the prayers I have had over the last year of my life - and will continue to be. I think this will be part of my daily reading each day - to think on the words of this song and really make them a prayer for my life. I am so thankful that He is full of grace and truth, the source of all righteousness, that His grace has covered all my sin - that He is the Lover of my Soul. While some of the things that have happened over the last year I would not have chosen on my own, I am thankful God uses all things for our good and His glory. Oh and with Christ - I think that I am starting to be able to loosen the grip I have and put my hands up on that roller coaster ride - knowing I am safe with Him.
Jesus, lover of my soul,
Let me to Thy bosom fly,
While the nearer waters roll,
While the tempest still is high.
Hide me, O my Savior, hide,
Till the storm of life is past;
Safe into the haven guide;
Oh, receive my soul at last.
Other refuge have I none,
Hangs my helpless soul on Thee;
Leave, ah! leave me not alone,
Still support and comfort me.
All my trust on Thee is stayed,
All my help from Thee I bring;
Cover my defenseless head
With the shadow of Thy wing.
Wilt Thou not regard my call?
Wilt Thou not accept my prayer?
Lo! I sink, I faint, I fall—
Lo! on Thee I cast my care.
Reach me out Thy gracious hand!
While I of Thy strength receive,
Hoping against hope I stand,
Dying, and behold, I live.
Thou, O Christ, art all I want,
More than all in Thee I find;
Raise the fallen, cheer the faint,
Heal the sick, and lead the blind.
Just and holy is Thy Name,
Source of all true righteousness;
Thou art evermore the same,
Thou art full of truth and grace.
Plenteous grace with Thee is found,
Grace to cover all my sin;
Let the healing streams abound;
Make and keep me pure within.
Thou of life the fountain art,
Freely let me take of Thee;
Spring Thou up within my heart;
Rise to all eternity.
Charles Wesley
Thursday, July 07, 2011
Monkeying Around!
So I always have dreams of being "crafty." I wish I had more time to devote to doing crafty things and wish I was a little more on the crafty side. I am in the process of planning my son's frist birthday party (which is for another post - but I can't figure out where the last year went - except that wherever it went it went way too fast!). I am excited about the plans for his party and we are going with a monkey theme. I think it will be very fun and very cute!
All that being said, I decided to make his birthday cards - thinking hey - I can do this and save money at the same time. So I discovered - yes, I can do this - but not so sure in the long run I saved money - lol! I have to say however that I am very excited about the final product and glad I decided to make them! They are each just slightly different in design which is fun too! Can't wait to hand them out!
Thanks to my friend Jamie - she helped me glue lots of rafia!
All that being said, I decided to make his birthday cards - thinking hey - I can do this and save money at the same time. So I discovered - yes, I can do this - but not so sure in the long run I saved money - lol! I have to say however that I am very excited about the final product and glad I decided to make them! They are each just slightly different in design which is fun too! Can't wait to hand them out!
Thanks to my friend Jamie - she helped me glue lots of rafia!
Saturday, June 04, 2011
My Great Thing
Six years ago today, I was up early excited about all the day had in store - - - - I was getting married!!!!!!!! Thinking about that day makes me smile so much! I had spent quite a few years praying that God would bring a godly man into my life and it seemed that it was never going to happen. The summer of 2003, God did a big work in my heart. He really worked that summer on my being content with Him alone and trusting him in being single. I could have honestly told you in August that summer that I was fine being single - ready to face life and be happy if that was what God had for me. Then the most amazing thing happened in September. A very handsome, kind and godly man showed up in central Missouri and I fell head-over-heels for him! The story about meeting Jeremy will have to be another post - but we can suffice to say, God brought me my "great thing." There is a song Jeremy and love and played at our wedding that says, "Praise to Him who gives us all good things." Psalm 103 was the verse on our napkin at our wedding:
Praise the LORD, my soul;
all my inmost being, praise his holy name.
Praise the LORD, my soul,
and forget not all his benefits—
who forgives all your sins
and heals all your diseases,
who redeems your life from the pit
and crowns you with love and compassion,
who satisfies your desires with good things
so that your youth is renewed like the eagle’s.
God not only satisfied my desire to be married - he abundantly blessed my life with exactly what he knew I needed. Jeremy is a blessing beyond what I could ask or imagine. He is my very best friend! Above all he loves Christ and that translates into an amazing love for myself and our children. For those who know me, you know I can at times worry or be fearful. Jeremy is my calm voice of reason. He lovingly points me to Christ and demonstrates through his life a complete trust in Christ and no reason to fear. I love him for many many reasons! He is kind, caring compassionate, fun, helpful, handsome, intelligent, outgoing, hardworking, student of God's word, gentle, trustworthy, a good listener, an amazing daddy, fun to laugh with, loves to travel, is an amazing grill man, is a foodie and this list could keep going! God knew exactly what I needed and I am thankful that in His perfect timing God brought Jeremy into my life! Did I love the long wait - - not so much - but the blessings were WELL worth the wait!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Six years ago today I got to marry my very best friend! Jeremy I love you with all my heart and I rejoice that God chose to bless me with you!!!!!! It was a wonderful wedding day. I pray our marriage will continue to grow and reflect Christ in all we do. I am excited about all God has in store for us! Jeremiah Lee Writebol is definitely my great thing! I love you babe!!!!!!!
Saturday, May 28, 2011
Where Does Time Go?
Let's just start by saying Allie loves her "Friend Lil!" They have been together since Lily was about 8 month old and Allie was 11 months old. They are quite the buddies - a lot like sisters and for that I am thankful. I was going through pictures and I could (and think I might) make a book of them over the last 3 years - it was so much fun to go back through pictures and see all they have done together! Lots of fun for sure! As I was looking at the pictures I have to admit I was a little sad - where did time go - they have gotten so much bigger! But I was also realizing as I was looking at the pictures that each and every stage has been so fun and I am thankful for all of Allie's friends God has given her! I am excited to continue to watch them grow and learn. All of Allie's little friends hold a special place in our family's heart and really are like family to us. Just ask Allie - she will tell you about all the cousins, aunts and uncles she has! God is good!
Now - - - check out the little girls - from their first stroller days together to a current picture of them at Family Fun Day! I could have posted a lot - but this will give the dramatic changes! I love these girls!
Now - - - check out the little girls - from their first stroller days together to a current picture of them at Family Fun Day! I could have posted a lot - but this will give the dramatic changes! I love these girls!
Daddy/Daughter Dates
I love - LOVE the fact that I have a husband who loves to "date" his daughter!!!! I love - LOVE the fact that I have a little girl who LOVES to be with her daddy! When I was younger my dad and I would have special dates. For his birthday he and I would always go out to lunch for pizza at Godfather's Pizza - always! We would also go out to dinner and Christmas shop for my mom's gifts before Christmas - and the best part - we still do this. It is something that I treasure and hold very dear to my heart! My dad showed me at a very early age how a man should treat me. I felt treasured by my dad and knew that he loved me very much - that he would set aside special time for just me. I still feel this way - I get excited each December knowing that I get a night out with just my dad. It is special to just be together, get to talk and catch up, laugh and have lots of fun looking for gifts for my mom.
Tonight I am home with Ethan - which is super fun. Jeremy is out with Allison. He has been taking her on dates. Usually about once a month. I love it - I love seeing her eyes light up when he asks her, "Allison can I take you on a date tonight?" Her first response (after a HUGE smile), "where are we going?" Tonight Jeremy asked her where she would like to go out to eat. Her response, "Taco Bell!!!!" (very enthusiastically!) Not bad that she is such a cheap date - lol!!!!! She also didn't know when she left that he was going to surprise her after Taco Bell and take her to Build-a-Bear. Wish I could see her face when she goes in and realizes what that will mean.
My heart is happy knowing the investment he is making in her little life. She is learning not only that her daddy loves her very much but also how a man should treat her and care for her. She is building precious memories to last a lifetime - just like my dad has done and is still doing for me!
There is nothing like Daddy/Daughter dates! I think my heart is smiling as much as she was earlier this evening when she eagerly needed to "get ready for her date!"
I have posted some pictures - not from tonight but from her date with Jeremy in February for Valentine's day complete with flowers and candy as well as a few pictures from Dad's and Donuts at PreK with Allie. Enjoy - now off to enjoy my little guy!!!! Mommy/Son time is super special too!
Sunday, May 22, 2011
This is the Day the Lord has Made!
For those who check here (which I think is a small group of you) you may have noticed that it has been a while since my last post. We can suffice to say that the Writebol's seem to have spent the last month and a half with some form of a new illness about every two weeks. And yes, we have a new one that popped up this weekend. My little "E" caught a bug and has spent the weekend sick - I feel like the rest of us are waiting time-bombs! Needless to say I am one tired mom - worn out on most all fronts. The end of the school year is a very busy time for me and it seems there is something going on every night (between school and a husband in ministry). I am embarrassed to say it but I have had my fair share of complaining over the last several weeks. God has been really working on my heart - - - there have been some situations beyond sickness that have challenged me and caused me to have to really focus on where my joy comes from. My joy can't be in things of this world - it can only be from Christ. Therefore - my verse for this week is:
"I will rejoice in the Lord; I will take joy in the God of my salvation." Habakkuk 3:18
Today, tomorrow, the next day and the next and so on were all created by Him for his glory and purposes and my good. Therefore - I will rejoice in Him. He is my joy and salvation. (Thanks Esther for posting that verse - I needed to see it and think on it! I love you!)
"I will rejoice in the Lord; I will take joy in the God of my salvation." Habakkuk 3:18
Today, tomorrow, the next day and the next and so on were all created by Him for his glory and purposes and my good. Therefore - I will rejoice in Him. He is my joy and salvation. (Thanks Esther for posting that verse - I needed to see it and think on it! I love you!)
Sunday, April 17, 2011
New Mercies - New Week
Last week - wow - there aren't enough words to describe how hard it was for the Writebol family. It started Monday - a disappointment we weren't expecting followed by Ethan throwing up, a double ear infection, Jeremy and Allie sick on Wednesday and me just not feeling good from about Thursday night until now. It was a hard week. On Thursday Jeremy said, "we missed watching Survivor last night." My reply, "oh no - I played Survivor last night." That was the night of everyone except me sick - being up the entire night with Allie throwing up every 30 minutes. No sleep, MOUNDS of laundry - it was rough. But one thing I know and am confident of - God's mercies are new every morning. In the midst of a rough week there were definite evidences of grace all around (easier to look back now and see them - in the midst I admit it was tough). God grace in the last week:
- Extra time with my family
- A nap here and there
- A few good chats with my sister-in-law
- A precious call with my mom (me in tears and her praying) but still good!
- Sweet time of worship with the people of SOMA
- Getting to hear my husband preach
- Picking out garden plants with my little girl
- Snuggle time with my little "E"
- Good time in the word with the help of my new commentary
- Booking tickets to Seattle for Anniversary and Jeremy's Graduation - can't wait!
God's mercies are everywhere - it is good for me to stop and see them! And yes - I am more than excited about a new week - today is palm Sunday - a week to really think on the Passion week - leading to the death and resurrection of my Savior. I am praying that this week more than ever I will be aware each moment of the grace and mercy he so freely bestowed on me. Thank for new mercies!!!!!! Every morning!
Just for fun I have included two pictures that just melt my heart!
Friday, April 08, 2011
Long Week But Evidences of God's Grace All Over the Place
This week has been one that has seemed long and I am so very tired but my husband has reminded me to keep my eyes open because everyday there are evidences of God's grace all over! He is so very right - God's grace surrounds me! So in light of that thought and because of the inspiration of my friend I leave you at the end of my week with a list of things that made me happy this week (in no particular order):
- My fantasy Nascar team winning the race! Finally!
- Jeremy's last trip to Seattle for school - Graduation in June :)
- Ethan snuggling and letting me hold him while he falls asleep
- Playing dollhouse with Allie
- Pesto Pasta from Mary's Pizza
- My little Allie singing "Beautiful Shore" and The Rizers with me in the car
- A donut on the way to work with Allie
- Fellowship time with my Catalyst Group
- Tax Refund!!!!!! This is a first!
- Good times of reading in my new commentary book to help me in my devotion time
- Talking to my Grandma
- Date Night with my husband - dinner, ice cream and just being together
- Watching students where I work shine in giving speeches, presentations and more
- Sunshine
- Allie saying, "I need to tell you something . . . I love you with all my heart!"
- A six-second kiss from my husband
- Friends who are there to listen and pray
- Daffodils
I could go on and on - God is gracious and I am thankful! Now to take care of the being tired - off to bed!
Saturday, April 02, 2011
A Warm Spring Day
The weather has turned into something wonderful! Sunny warm days where we can get outside and enjoy time together! Allie is really into walks these days and Ethan loves being in the stroller on the go! Today was a perfect day weather wise and so Allie, Ethan and I headed out for a walk in our neighborhood. It was a lot of fun. We came back home and headed to the back yard to enjoy a little more time outside. Allie willingly gave up the infant swing to Ethan and went in the "Big Girl" swing. She then spent a lot of time showing Ethan how to slide and ride her bike. Fun times were had by all!
Friday, April 01, 2011
Lessons In Discipline
I need to start this post by stating from the get-go that being disciplined is just not my strong suit. I always have great ideas and good plans but struggle with the daily discipline to see something through. A little over a month ago I was inspired by a friend (who I really want to be like when I grow up) to exercise. I read on her blog that she was doing the Jillian Michaels 30 Day Shred and was quite intrigued by this. I was watching Biggest Loser while reading her blog and immediately thought, "I should be doing this." I jumped on Amazon, checked out the DVD and instantly ordered it. Grand idea in my mind - big question - could I really be disciplined enough to see it through to completion? 30 days of consistent exercise? I have to admit part of me really thought I would start and like everything else it would end after a week or so of trying. But deep in my heart I wanted to finish a full 30 days . . . I wanted to be disciplined to do something that was hard - that would be a challenge to me.
Discipline can seem like a nasty word. I looked it up and found that one of the meanings of discipline is: The treatment suited to a disciple or learner; education; development of the faculties by instruction and exercise; training, whether physical, mental, or moral. Doesn't sound so bad - but does involve several things: an intentional choice and a clear commitment.
I am more than excited to write this post and say that I did complete the 30 days! It didn't happen without struggle, sweat, aches, help from my husband, and yes, even a new pair of tennis shoes! :) The exercise has been great - I have slept better, feel better and while I am bummed that the scale hasn't changed, clothes are fitting much differently. But the last 30 days have benefited me more than the exercise. I have learned some good lessons in discipline. Things that I can apply to other areas of my life and hopefully continue to grow to be more disciplined. What did I learn?
*Accountability is ESSENTIAL! I made many people aware of what I was doing - people who I knew would encourage me and keep me accountable!
*Pressing on even when I didn't want to! There were many days that exercising was the last thing that I wanted to do but I have learned that a disciplined person makes hard choices - funny part is I always felt better when I made myself do it!
*Set short term goals! It would be totally unrealistic for me to say, "I am going to exercise everyday for the rest of the year." But it is within reason that I can do something for 30 days - - "I can do anything in my life for 30 days." Breaking things into smaller goals makes attaining them easier to reach.
*Set a schedule. I had a pretty regular time for exercise each day. Having a time that I knew I would exercise helped me set a routine that I and my whole family knew and expected. This allowed my husband to be a big help and encouragement to me. My daughter would even exercise with me at times.
*Discipline involves sacrificing momentary pleasures for what matters most. In regards to my exercise, being healthy and able to help my family is important. Momentary pleasure might be hitting the snooze button, laying on the couch, playing on the computer - but those things don't matter most.
*Reward is a good thing. My sweet husband set a reward for me if I completed a full 30 days - - that was a big driving force for me to finish. While rewards don't have to be material rewards and don't have to be big, it is ok to reward ourselves for a job well done.
*After a period of time, the thing you are working to be disciplined in becomes a normal part of your life. One you miss when it is not there. This is one of the craziest things to me but after 30 days, I gave myself a day off yesterday. I can honestly tell you I missed exercising yesterday and felt a little guilty for taking a day off.
*Being disciplined really does take a conscience decision and commitment that says, "No matter what I am going to do this."
I have a lot to learn and still have much growing ahead of me in being disciplined. But the last 30 days taught me a lot and I am excited about the next 30 days! April 1 and back at it. The one thing I know is that when I am determined, I really can do it. The other thing I know - I have a massage at Coldwater Creek waiting for me!!!!!
Discipline can seem like a nasty word. I looked it up and found that one of the meanings of discipline is: The treatment suited to a disciple or learner; education; development of the faculties by instruction and exercise; training, whether physical, mental, or moral. Doesn't sound so bad - but does involve several things: an intentional choice and a clear commitment.
I am more than excited to write this post and say that I did complete the 30 days! It didn't happen without struggle, sweat, aches, help from my husband, and yes, even a new pair of tennis shoes! :) The exercise has been great - I have slept better, feel better and while I am bummed that the scale hasn't changed, clothes are fitting much differently. But the last 30 days have benefited me more than the exercise. I have learned some good lessons in discipline. Things that I can apply to other areas of my life and hopefully continue to grow to be more disciplined. What did I learn?
*Accountability is ESSENTIAL! I made many people aware of what I was doing - people who I knew would encourage me and keep me accountable!
*Pressing on even when I didn't want to! There were many days that exercising was the last thing that I wanted to do but I have learned that a disciplined person makes hard choices - funny part is I always felt better when I made myself do it!
*Set short term goals! It would be totally unrealistic for me to say, "I am going to exercise everyday for the rest of the year." But it is within reason that I can do something for 30 days - - "I can do anything in my life for 30 days." Breaking things into smaller goals makes attaining them easier to reach.
*Set a schedule. I had a pretty regular time for exercise each day. Having a time that I knew I would exercise helped me set a routine that I and my whole family knew and expected. This allowed my husband to be a big help and encouragement to me. My daughter would even exercise with me at times.
*Discipline involves sacrificing momentary pleasures for what matters most. In regards to my exercise, being healthy and able to help my family is important. Momentary pleasure might be hitting the snooze button, laying on the couch, playing on the computer - but those things don't matter most.
*Reward is a good thing. My sweet husband set a reward for me if I completed a full 30 days - - that was a big driving force for me to finish. While rewards don't have to be material rewards and don't have to be big, it is ok to reward ourselves for a job well done.
*After a period of time, the thing you are working to be disciplined in becomes a normal part of your life. One you miss when it is not there. This is one of the craziest things to me but after 30 days, I gave myself a day off yesterday. I can honestly tell you I missed exercising yesterday and felt a little guilty for taking a day off.
*Being disciplined really does take a conscience decision and commitment that says, "No matter what I am going to do this."
I have a lot to learn and still have much growing ahead of me in being disciplined. But the last 30 days taught me a lot and I am excited about the next 30 days! April 1 and back at it. The one thing I know is that when I am determined, I really can do it. The other thing I know - I have a massage at Coldwater Creek waiting for me!!!!!
Saturday, March 12, 2011
My Great Thing!
One more trip - - - can't even tell you how excited I am that after April Jeremy won't be making monthly trips to Seattle for class. Don't get me wrong - ReTrain has been a blessing beyond belief for us as a family and for Jeremy is his training for ministry. When Jeremy received a full scholarship to ReTrain, I had no idea the impacts it would have on us as a family. It has been wonderful. It has been exciting to see him learn a lot, be challenged by the gospel, meet people who have become friends as well as mentors, and to watch the impact that ReTrain has had on how Jeremy ministers first and foremost to us as a family and then to the community around us. I love it! I would recommend it to anyone whose husband is in ministry. The rewards are HUGE - - - but sacrifice is involved. It has not been an easy 8 months. Every month Jeremy goes to Seattle - sometimes for a three day trip and sometimes for a week. It is a challenge to be a mom of two kids on my own during those times and I have a little girl who misses her daddy a great deal. It is also a sacrifice during the month as well. Jeremy has about 1,000 pages to read after each class and typically about a 15 - 20 page paper to write - so all of that on top of ministry/work and family - it is a challenge.
I have been learning over the last 8 months in some big ways more and more that God's plans are perfect, his timing is perfect, that this life isn't mine and that my trust and dependance on him must increase. I wish I could share all that has happened in the last 8 months - it is quite amazing the circumstances and situations God has taken us through. But in each one I have seen God's care, grace and provision in our lives.
It has been good for me in so many ways to learn to sacrifice over the last 8 months. We have so much and really deserve so little. I am thankful for the opportunity God gave us with Jeremy attending ReTrain - - - - - it really has "re-trained" us in gospel thinking and helped us grow as a family. I am thankful for a husband who loves Christ above all things and is passionate about growing in the knowledge and grace of Christ. Jeremy really is my Great thing that God blessed me with beyond belief! He has worked hard and done well in his classes. He has been diligent in study and done his best to not let it take time from our family. He has ministered to us as a family in a whole new way. I am so proud of him!
I am eagerly anticipating our trip together to Seattle for our 6th anniversary as well as his graduation! So he makes one more trip in April, none in May and then we go together in June - I can't wait! I am excited about school being done (I chuckle as I write that because Jeremy loves learning so somehow I think school will always be in the picture in some way - lol) and having my great thing here with me more! Thankful for ReTrain and God's work through it - - and excited to have the one I love so much back home!
Tuesday, March 01, 2011
Cooking Under Pressure?????
A year and a half ago, my friend and I found a kitchen essential the day after Thanksgiving - a pressure cooker! We had been told that a pressure cooker was a kitchen "must have" and of course when there was an amazing deal on one we were up at 3:00 a.m. and ready to make the purchase. We were so excited that not only did we get up at 3:00 a.m. to get the great deal but we then proceeded to wait a year and a half before even using it! That is slightly embarrassing to admit to - waiting a year and a half to use something that was a "must have."
Well, I first must tell you that I was a little on the scared side to use it - what if it blew up and exploded all over me and my kitchen?????? So my friend Christine and I (yes, she is the other happy shopper who bought one!) decided that while our husbands were away we would get together and finally try out this pressure cooker thing - you know - find out if it was a "must have." A cookbook called "Cooking Under Pressure" had been recommended to me (you can get a great deal on it at Amazon). And yes, I had gotten the cookbook a year and a half ago as well! We set out to choose a recipe. Coq Au Vin it was! We didn't even know how to pronounce it until after dinner last night.
So we began prepping the meal. Not only was it fun to cook together but it was nice to split the cost (we didn't choose the cheapest recipe in the book) and I also figured at least if it blew up we would be in this thing together! It was so much easier than we could have imagined! Browned the bacon, browned the chicken, sauteed the veggies and then made the meal all in one pot - - amazing! What was more amazing was that it was cooked in 10 minutes! The best part - nothing blew up! The meal turned out perfectly and we can't wait to make it for our husbands! So we had Coq Au Vin, mashed potatoes and steamed asparagus. Quite a meal!
So will I be using my pressure cooker again - YES!!!!!!!!! It really is a kitchen must have!!!!!!! I give credit to Cecile D. She is a kitchen genius and has had a huge impact on my planning and cooking! Often times I feel like I am cooking "under pressure" with not much time - working and wanting to maximize time with my family. The pressure cooker has changed my cooking life! The thought of making a pot roast in 40 minutes is exciting to me! Now I know how the Iron Chefs get those meals done in one hour! Last year my discovery of great crockpot meals made a huge difference in my cooking - this year - the Pressure Cooker! All of you who don't have one - it is a MUST - trust me! And now I have to admit - we did almost turn and run when we did the "Quick Pressure Release" and it made a scary sound - - - but I will be doing it again - VERY soon!
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